Hire a professional lighting technician to program the lights to the music.

Use a smartphone app that controls the lights and synchronizes them with the music.

Invest in a custom lighting system with built-in music synchronization capabilities.

Use a DMX controller to program the lights to change color and pattern in time with the music.

Work with a wedding DJ who offers lighting services and can synchronize the lights with the music.

Use a wireless lighting control system that can be programmed to synchronize with the music playback.